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Tuesday, January 15, 2008

I went to see my Aunt Ellen yesterday. I was so nervous. I wasn't sure how I would handle what I would see. As soon as I saw her, I wanted to be close to her. She looked so tiny and frail. She was coherent, she knew who I was and was happy to see me. She was in some pain, but they gave her more meds when I was there. I stayed close to her so I could hear and understand what she was saying. It is hard for her to talk. She told me she didn't like some of the nurses and she told me she was really scared. I showed her my locket that my parents gave me for Christmas, it has a pink ribbon on it and a picture of her inside. She smiled and said it was nice. She told me about some necklace of hers, but I couldn't really make out what she was saying. She introduced me to her dr and nurses and told them how I have twins just like her daughter. It was a nice visit. I told her I loved her and I would come back soon. Unfortunately, she won't be coming back home. She is to be moved into the Hospice ward. Sundays and Mondays are the only days I can visit without the kids. So, I am going to visit every week for as long as I can...
The main thing I pray for is that she will have peace and not be scared.

5 comments:

Suzanne said...

My mother and I are both praying that she has peace and little pain. Hugs to you and your family.

Joanna said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt. I will keep her in my prayers. How nice of you to spend time with her and be there and pray for her. The is the best thing you can. I have spent a lot of time in Hospice with family members and from my experience it is a very welcoming place. I hope that she feels that comfort while she is in there.

jennbecc said...

Sorry Peggy. I deal with this stuff all the time at work but I never have the right words. Enjoy your time with her. My thoughts are will you both.

Jill said...

Awww. How hard to see a loved one in such a state. I am sure you made a difference by visiting her. :)

Angel said...

Next time you talk to her please give her a hug from me and tell her I am praying for her too! I'm so glad I got the chance to know her. She has lived with this pain for too long.